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Wednesday, May 20, 2009,10:21 PM

He's just not that into you. aka something I can relate to.

Don't let the "honeys" and the "babys" fool you.
His sweet nothings are exactly that. They are much easier
to say than "I'm just not that into you." Remember, actions
speak louder than, "There's no cell reception where I am right now."

Calling when you say you're going to call is the very first
brick in the house you are building of love and trust.
If he can't lay this one stupid brick down, you ain't never
gonna have a house, baby. And it's cold outside.

Beware of the word "friend". It can often be used by men or
the women that love them to excuse the most unfriendly behavior.
Personally, when I'm picking friends, I like the ones who don't
make me cry myself to sleep.

Everyone wants to be loved and needed, particularly by the
person who just broke up with us. I understand. What could
be better than hearing from the man who just told you he
didn't want you in his life anymore ... his sad, will fucken,
"I miss you so much" voice on the other end of the phone?
It's validating. It's exciting. It's irresistible. But resist you must.

My friends all say I should stop talking to him, but I think
he misses me, and I like that. I miss him. I feel if I stay in
touch with him, it will remind him of how great I am, and
eventually he will realize that we should be together again.

A man who wants to make a relationship work will move mountains
to keep the woman he loves. If he's not calling you to tell
you he loves you and wants you back, it should only be because
he's showing up at your new residence to do it in person ...
if he's not doing any of that, he may love you, he may miss you,
but ultimately he's just not that into you. Stop taking his calls
and let him know what it's like to live without you.

Don't be flattered that he misses you. He should miss you.
You're deeply missable. However, he's still the same person
who just broke up with you. Remember, the only reason he can
miss you is because he's choosing, every day, not to be with you.

Deciding to get back together with someone is a complicated
and difficult decision. Just remember that the person you are
getting back together with is the same person who, not long before,
looked you in your beautiful face, took full stock of you and all
your qualities, and told you that he was no longer in need of your
company.

Cut him off. Let him miss you.

He doesn't need to be reminded that you're great.

There's a guy out there who's going to be really happy
that you didn't get back together with your crappy ex-boyfriend.

Don't give him the chance to reject you again.

Never make excuses for a man's actions.

No matter how powerful and real your feelings may be for
someone, if that person cannot fully and honestly return them
and therefore actively love you back, these feelings mean nothing.

Life is hard enough as it is without choosing someone
difficult to share it with.

You deserve to be with someone who is nice to you all the time.

- Greg Behrendt & Liz Tuccillo ♥

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